onEverything in your life is a reflection of the choices that you have made. Whatever road you chose to travel is what defined your past. Your past history doesn't define your future.  You can change the course of your life by being proactive for the changes you desire.  Make a list of all of the people, places and things that have affected who you are today; whether good or bad. You can change any negative situation into a positive by changing your perspective. Delve deep into your core being and take responsibility and decide to no longer put blame on anyone. All the negative and positive influences that have helped mold you into who you are today; find a solution and not a barrier. Affirm to yourself that you are an overcomer.  You can no longer hold anyone else accountable for where you are today. From this day forward you are accountable for what you will achieve. . You can't change other people but you can change you and your outcome. I never said it will  be easy but it will be well worth every step you take to peel away the layers of self defeat.  Are you willing to surrender and admit to yourself you are ready for change and growth?  Reaffirm to yourself; " I am ready to reclaim me today!" Much love from my heart to yours...

 How we communicate with others and ourselves has an impact on every area of our lives.  Our thoughts can manifest our greatest desires or our deepest fears. Be very cautious with where your thoughts lead you. The things we hear or the things we say will come to fruition in one fashion or another. We must believe in the power of positivity and words; no matter how bleak things may appear. We transform our minds and souls by every thought we have, words we hear and every word we utter. Be in the presence of people who elevate you and not deplete you with their words. Remember you have this one life to live!  Live it for your truth.  Your goal is to progress and align yourself with your true  purpose. Begin by being proactive and take small steps in the direction you desire. Speak praises and affirmations over yourself and others. 

Through all the promises of hope and all the promises of love; be thankful for every moment.  Be thankful that you have met the people you have in this lifetime and all the friendships that have developed over the course of your life.  Live in gratitude and extending love to the world and give thanks.  Thank all the people who helped you everyday, Be thankful for those who you have loved and those who have loved you. Be thankful that you are alive. Be thankful for all the memories... Those are the treasured moments stored up in your soul. Be thankful to just be.... much love from my heart to yours... 

Rebuilding your life after a major storm can feel very overwhelming. You have to make each day count. You are accountable for the choices that you make, how you treat yourself and how you treat others. You may choose to fall or choose to rise. Some doors may close and some may open. Be you, surrender and allow people to help you on your journey. No matter how scared you are; there are people who will point you in the right directions. You have to turn everything over to the will of God and walk in Faith. Understand, that you can change your life but you have to be willing to make the changes.  Each day give thanks and put one foot infront of the other and start charging forward. Start making phone calls, journaling, making to do lists, not to do lists and you will begin manifesting the things on your wish lists. Remember everything is temporary and nothing is forever so  make each day valuable. You are the most valuable asset you have so take care of yourself... Live with love...love from your core... be couragious and find your way! much love form my hear to yours...

Have you ever ran so hard and so fast that you didn't know how you got from point A to point Z? Wow, when you are running you don't even have a chance to stop and reflect on the things around you. When you finally meet the end you take a deep breath, rest and look around and realize everything you ran so fast from is staring you right back in the face. You were running  and not taking anytime to reflect and you passed everything in between. You wonder how and why did you run so fast and what were you running from? You look back at the images that flash before you and you realize that you were running from the things that tried to break your heart and soul. You thought if you kept running and not facing things they would magically dissapear... I lost so much over the last year few years  of my life... I was running from hurt and pain and stopped reflecting on what life was trying to teach me. I gave up my home, donated just about everything I owned, walked out of a job after 9 years, watched my son get locked up,  people stealing from me, violating me, lost  some people I loved and ran from town to town... state to state only to come back to realize I couldn't run anymore. With my Faith still by my side... I surrendered. I had to face the fact that my son had developed drug induced schizophrenia and I have to be there for him and all the trauma he has undergone and my other three children. I ran from everything and everyone I loved the most; including myself. I was in denial of what and how my sons long term addiction had done to me and my family. I had many sleepless nights and was averaging 3 to 4 hours a sleep a night for 4 years, trying to maintain a full time job and raise a family on my own.  Before you make irrational decisions speak to someone.  I was Wow... sleep deprivation and stress can take you down a road you would not ordinarly travel... Before you give up on yourself or feel like you are all alone...reach out to others and let them know what you are facing.  All I can say is don't run from the lessons you are being taught... embrace them, reach out to others when you are going through things in life.  Nobody has walked in your shoes. We all react to situations differently.   Don't give up hope and don't give up on your life because your life is precious... Run to hope and don't run in fear.... much love from my heart to yours....

If you had twenty four hours to live and you knew it was your final day... How would you live it and what would you do? Really think about that question because that is who you are at your core. How would you paint the picture of your last day on earth? Who would you spend it with? Would you spend it crying or laughing, dancing or sitting? I know exaclty how I would spend mine, with whom, where and what I would do... It is crazy because I think about these questions so often... yet, I fail to live as though each day were my last. One thing  I know deep inside is that I can be real with myself and understand that I am not always living up to my best potential.   Aren't we to be striving everyday to be the best versions of ourselves and to shed away the things that hold us back from moving forward.  Are most of us dying while we are living? If you aren't living up to your true potential and making a positive change everyday you are missing the very key to your purpose. The things you think about doing in your last 24 hours show you what are your most important values, hopes and dreams... Dig deep inside and find the treausures of your heart and charge forward each day living and not regretting..., because your last day may be over before tomorrow begins... 

Do you feel like you have a purpose beyond yourself? The desires of your heart, mind and soul were given to you on the day you entered into agreement with your day of birth. You were assigned lessons and teachings to grow beyond just existing. We weren't born to survive; we are born to lead others back to their rightful place. The place of harmony and truth. The greatest truths are forgiveness and love. Love is the most delicate and precious gift one could ever share or hold onto. When we come from a place of grace we are able to extend compassion unto others. People will hurt you and you will hurt others but that doesn't mean there is something wrong with you or them. Those situations are to help you delve deep into your conscious and release impure parts of yourself or them. The greatest thing one can do is to recognize the imbalance within oneself. When you feel discontent within... it is a clue on the things you are to be working on within yourself. When you begin to master your own being you will no longer judge another for their actions. You will begin to understand that others are working on their own soul progression. Never regret anything that you have learned or anyone you have met because those that were close to you taught you many things about yourself or you were there to teach them what they needed... Keep forgiving, keep on loving and keep inspiring others to be the best versions of themselves.... much love from my heart to yours..

You are perfect in every area of your life. You may not be perfect for everyone but you are perfectly unique for your calling. You are wonderful and magical in every area of your existence. You are the light and the vibration of your heart and mind. You are everything I am and everything I am not. You are the passion inside and outside of every step you take. You are the yin and the yang: the feminine and the masculine. You are the emotion that runs through your veins and the frequencies in which you engage. You are the love, the light, the dark and truth. You are the muse that walks the earth. You are divine perfectly perfect and perfectly flawed. You are your scars that make you everything you are... Nothing can stop you and nothing will ever break you because your strength is in the physical and the metaphysical. The energy you can't see.... effervescently flows through from you to me. No matter the distance no matter the time... nothing can separate the soul from echoing with the rhythm of the dancing chimes....