I was in meditation and reflecting on my life... My mother's murder by her abusive partner when I was a child and reflecting on the abuse I have encountered over my life from men who claimed to love and adore me. I came across this book by divine appointment and I wish I would have found it sooner on my journey in this life... you will find information very valuable and hopefully you will see the patterns; if you are an abuser or have been abused. 

This is a very good book that I have found on domestic violence, emotional, verbal and mental abuse that abusers put their significant others through. The author has worked with abusive men for decades. The name of the book is Why Does He Do That (inside the minds of Angry and Controlling Men) By Lundy Bancroft. I encourage you to read the full 640 page book... you do not need to purchase the book. I put a link down below and right here https://sa1s3.patientpop.com/assets/docs/85477.pdf ... copy and paste  and put it into your browser and you will be able to read the entire book for free... For all the survivors of Domestic, Mental, Verbal, Emotional Assault... this is one of the best resources I have found! The abuser only changes if they want to for themselves and you. You are not to blame! You can't fix someone who does not want to be fixed, blames you for their behavior or does not want to grow! Much love from my heart to yours
 copy and paste to read the full book-       https://sa1s3.patientpop.com/assets/docs/85477.pdf

​Please... I encourage you and those who know me at my core.... the eclipse August 21 2017 started the beginning of judgement that was prophesized over America...and our world was the end of September/ October of 2020 was the middle of that time. The next one is April 8, 2024 Trump-Pence will and has sound the horn for the things to come... It was declared thousands of years ago... but this Nation turned away from God; as well as We The People...from the loyalty that was declared on July 4, 1776 and the covenant.. This country became the new Babylon... we are in the middle of major judgment... not many understand and I have tried to warn people for years.. I have tried to say it to people in simple terms... that even the very elect may be deceived... needed good/ evil to begin the spiritual warfare... we all have a choice... My visions and dreams have manifested as such... there is nothing special about me... The mystery comes alive to his chosen people.... prophesized in the bible to warn and to open your eyes.... I did a video in 2014 that I was afraid to put out but I can't hide behind the truth of my calling any longer....
Ephesians 4:11-16
11 And he gave some, apostles; and some, prophets; and some, evangelists; and some, pastors and teachers;
12 For the perfecting of the saints, for the work of the ministry, for the edifying of the body of Christ:
13 Till we all come in the unity of the faith, and of the knowledge of the Son of God, unto a perfect man, unto the measure of the stature of the fulness of Christ:
14 That we henceforth be no more children, tossed to and fro, and carried about with every wind of doctrine, by the sleight of men, and cunning craftiness, whereby they lie in wait to deceive;
15 But speaking the truth in love, may grow up into him in all things, which is the head, even Christ:
16 From whom the whole body fitly joined together and compacted by that which every joint supplieth, according to the effectual working in the measure of every part, maketh increase of the body unto the edifying of itself i
Matthew 13:9-16
9 Who hath ears to hear, let him hear.
10 And the disciples came, and said unto him, Why speakest thou unto them in parables?
11 He answered and said unto them, Because it is given unto you to know the mysteries of the kingdom of heaven, but to them it is not given.
12 For whosoever hath, to him shall be given, and he shall have more abundance: but whosoever hath not, from him shall be taken away even that he hath.
13 Therefore speak I to them in parables: because they seeing see not; and hearing they hear not, neither do they understand.
14 And in them is fulfilled the prophecy of Esaias, which saith, By hearing ye shall hear, and shall not understand; and seeing ye shall see, and shall not perceive:
15 For this people's heart is waxed gross, and their ears are dull of hearing, and their eyes they have closed; lest at any time they should see with their eyes and hear with their ears, and should understand with their heart, and should be converted, and I should heal them.
16 But blessed are your eyes, for they see: and your ears, for they hear.
Daniel 9:27King James Version
27 And he shall confirm the covenant with many for one week: and in the midst of the week he shall cause the sacrifice and the oblation to cease, and for the overspreading of abominations he shall make it desolate, even until the consummation, and that determined shall be poured upon the desolate. (- the week is 7 years )
Daniel 11:31King James Version
31 And arms shall stand on his part, and they shall pollute the sanctuary of strength, and shall take away the daily sacrifice, and they shall place the abomination that maketh desolate.
Ephesians 6:12
12 For we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this world, against spiritual wickedness in high places.
Matthew 24:15-16
15 When ye therefore shall see the abomination of desolation, spoken of by Daniel the prophet, stand in the holy place, (whoso readeth, let him understand:)
16 Then let them which be in Judaea flee into the mountain