onEverything in your life is a reflection of the choices that you have made. Whatever road you chose to travel is what defined your past. Your past history doesn't define your future. You can change the course of your life by being proactive for the changes you desire. Make a list of all of the people, places and things that have affected who you are today; whether good or bad. You can change any negative situation into a positive by changing your perspective. Delve deep into your core being and take responsibility and decide to no longer put blame on anyone. All the negative and positive influences that have helped mold you into who you are today; find a solution and not a barrier. Affirm to yourself that you are an overcomer. You can no longer hold anyone else accountable for where you are today. From this day forward you are accountable for what you will achieve. . You can't change other people but you can change you and your outcome. I never said it will be easy but it will be well worth every step you take to peel away the layers of self defeat. Are you willing to surrender and admit to yourself you are ready for change and growth? Reaffirm to yourself; " I am ready to reclaim me today!" Much love from my heart to yours...