When you hold yourself accountable for your actions is when you finally understand yourself. When you fully surrender to knowing that the choices you have made in your life are the choices you have to contend to all on your own. It doesn't matter about all of the right choices you have made or all the good you have been or have done through out your existence. When you make one wrong decision it will affect the outcome of your life, your dreams and your journey. You have choices whether to entertain certain people in your life or situations. One wrong choice can ruin your life! People don't hear to understand... People hear to make judgments... Majority of people hold their sense of moral by the wrongs you have done or do within your life... Those are the kind of people that never hold themselves accountable for the wrongs they have done unto your or unto others. He who understands what you deal with on a daily basis are the only ones who know your story... Never be ashamed of your story. Many will judge you and the judicial system of our society is very harsh! Whether it be the court system set up by our government or the judicial system set up by societal measures. People will gossip and talk about you and judgement will come upon you like the wrath of God by mere smear campaigns. Our Society can make you feel as though you are less but in your heart you know you are more than what people say, think or know about you. Nobody knows your Alms... nobody knows your heart, mind or soul... or what your intentions are on your daily. Nobody knows the pain you have experienced in this life or the things that have ripped your heart apart. Nobody knows who you truly are on the inside... People judge you by the physical because they don't know who you are in the spiritual. It doesn't matter how close you are to God if you make one wrong decision. He definitely chastises his chosen people... Life is a mystery... Conviction only happens to those who have a convicted heart and condemnation comes from those who judge....