I was in meditation and reflecting on my life... My mother's murder by her abusive partner when I was a child and reflecting on the abuse I have encountered over my life from men who claimed to love and adore me. I came across this book by divine appointment and I wish I would have found it sooner on my journey in this life... you will find information very valuable and hopefully you will see the patterns; if you are an abuser or have been abused.
This is a very good book that I have found on domestic violence, emotional, verbal and mental abuse that abusers put their significant others through. The author has worked with abusive men for decades. The name of the book is Why Does He Do That (inside the minds of Angry and Controlling Men) By Lundy Bancroft. I encourage you to read the full 640 page book... you do not need to purchase the book. I put a link down below and right here https://sa1s3.patientpop.com/assets/docs/85477.pdf ... copy and paste and put it into your browser and you will be able to read the entire book for free... For all the survivors of Domestic, Mental, Verbal, Emotional Assault... this is one of the best resources I have found! The abuser only changes if they want to for themselves and you. You are not to blame! You can't fix someone who does not want to be fixed, blames you for their behavior or does not want to grow! Much love from my heart to yours
copy and paste to read the full book- https://sa1s3.patientpop.com/assets/docs/85477.pdf