A critical mind or a critical person will never allow you to grow into the authentic person you are... If you have people or things around you that do not allow you to flourish and beat you down with everything that comes from your heart or your mouth... Those people are life beaters... The beaters that swirl your world around to smooth out their own infirmities to make themselves feel better because they don't have your skills. The mixture of who you are and your life experiences help you to balance the perfect flavor for your meal.... Some people don't know how to add the perfect spices and their meal becomes bitter... there are those that will come and add lemons so they can ruin your perfect dish... We all need help from time to time to correct the spices to flavor our lives... Make sure your taste buds enjoy the zest of life....and not adhere to an acquired taste....